As a hypnotherapist I am trained to listen to people when they speak. today I had 2 clients in particular where I pointed out a word that they were using that I don’t even think they had an awareness that they were using period we all have a friend who says no where they mean to say yes so for instance if you say are you going to come with me tonight to the dinner like we planned so say something like yeah, no I think I’m going to make it but I might be a little bit late.